Yearly Archives: 2010

Mighty Life List

I’ve been reading Maggie Mason for years and have found myself particularly inspired by her Mighty Life List. For years I have wanted to create my own, but it hasn’t been easy. I’m so not a big picture thinker. I’m reactionary, malleable, adaptable, a go-with-the-flow kinda gal, if you will… all about the journey, not so much the destination, and all those clichés. It’s hard to envision the things I want to accomplish in life when I am so enthralled with uncovering those mysteries that present themselves to me daily.

Sure, there are always those things that, when I hear about them, I think, “Wow, that would be cool… ” But, with few exceptions, I forget about them almost as soon as I hear them.  I’ve become so fascinated with collecting a Mighty Life List that’s it’s hard to envision stopping long enough to actually plan one.

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Not obsessive, just self aware

I think I’ve always had a strong sense of my predominant traits. I’m emotional. I’m not particularly organized. I obsess… a lot.  But it wasn’t until recently that I went through an exercise at work that put new names on those traits – like Empathy, Adaptability and Restorative – that I was actually able to embrace them and come to think of them as strengths instead of deficits. It’s been nothing short of life-altering.

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Instant street cred, just add Faygo

A colleague who used to live in Corktown recently told me he considered mass-producing a photo of Michigan Central Station and setting up a kiosk in front of the train station labeled, “Instant Street Cred: Take One.” Which has me thinking, what would one actually add to the Instant Detroit Street Cred list?

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Folks, we have an issue and abandomnet is thy name

A friend moved cross-country this week. Not a close friend, but a person I think is rather extraordinary none-the-less. I knew this move was on the horizon, but when he finally settled on a date and posted a picture on Facebook of his new home on the other side of the world, all I could hear in my head was my two year old nephew, Kado, at the airport last week pleading as his mother dropped me off…

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Tiny wisdom

I spent some time with my two-year-old nephew, Kado, this past weekend. We played with his pet turtle, went bow when he peed in the potty, hugged and kissed a lot and had a bunch of really interesting conversations. Continue reading

There are eleventy-billion loads of laundry in my basement. That’s a lot.

Twenty-three loads of dirty laundry in my basement, one long-ass chest hair and some cystic acne. If this blog post doesn’t get me laid, I don’t know what will. Continue reading

Wherein I can’t take my Mommy to a work conference

I love to travel. That is, as long as I have a familiar hand to hold when in foreign lands – a calming force that tells me that I am in control of, at least, one part of the journey. But I’m off to DC next week… all. by. myself. And I’m a big ol’ pile of scared. Continue reading

Current obsessions

Vajazzling, social networking and sensible shoes: One of these things is not like the other. Well, actually, none of these things are like the other. Except that they are all current obsessions of mine. Continue reading

I earned these wrinkles. Now take them back.

It wasn’t the potential emphysema, nor the lung cancer, or even the thought of a mechanical larynx that made me quit smoking. No, I quit smoking because I am vain. And because I buy shampoo that costs $17 a bottle and smells like a field of strawberries, yet my head always smelled like a field of strawberries – planted inside an ashtray – three hours into any day. Continue reading

The L word

Of all the qualifiers that define me, most have been bestowed upon me by nature or simple necessity. One of the few that I chose completely of my own volition is that of Mrs. And, feminist-thought-be-damned, I’m gonna use it if I want to. Continue reading