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grace.

Four days before Christmas I was excited. My shopping was done, the decorations were up and I was coming up on eleven straight days of vacation. It took a while to get into the spirit, but I had even turned on the local station that plays Christmas carols 24 hours a day and was singing along. The year was almost over and I was excited.

Three days before Christmas I had the most hellacious day I have had at theNonprofit in years. The boss was literally screaming profanities at me over the phone about a mistake that I did not cause, but was working to correct. (Obviously not to her liking.) I was so wound up that an hour before quitting time I made myself a cocoa -  and then poured a shot (or two or twenty) of Schnapps into the mix to expedite the numbing I was going to need to make it through the night. In ten years of working at theNonprofit I have never – never – done such a thing. And I only felt a little guilty. Continue reading

The great Kid Rock meet and greet of 2010

Everyone in Detroit has a Kid Rock story. Tom sat next to him at a strip club. Bryan’s band recorded in the studio at the same time as him before he was well known (ask Bryan for the rest of the story sometime). Jeanette played pool at his house and broke his screen door. Sandie met him at the courthouse when he was pulling permits for his bar. Christine used to do PR for friends of his and met him way back when.

But me? Save a concert of his or two, I’ve never even been in the same zip code as him. In fact, I’ve long proclaimed that I’m the only person in Detroit that has never met Kid Rock.

But that all changed this week. I was going to meet Kid Rock and finally – finally - I would have my own bona fide Kid Rock story to tell. Continue reading

Confidence comes from keeping promises to yourself

I walked 70,130 steps last week. Per the pedometer, that’s over 24 miles (it’s actually a bit more).

I started mentoring with my CEO at work a few months back. One of his requirements of being mentored is that I agreed to take on the challenge of walking 10,000 steps a day. And, let me tell you, we didn’t build up to it. One day I was walking, oh… about 2,000 steps – and the next I was expected to be doing 10,000.

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Goosebumps

Whenever my friend, Christine, and I get together you will, more often than not, find us doing the following:

  • Eating Indian food
  • Shopping for makeup
  • Drinking Starbucks
  • Driving aimlessly for hours and talking

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Friday flashback

In lieu of actually crafting a blog post, I think I’ll devote Fridays to pulling in some of my favorites from my old blog on Diaryland. This gem may, or may not, be the reason I no longer work for the ‘poopuware. I’ll restrain from adding the original “artwork” that accompanied it, as well… a full on photo of my thong-clad ass.

Oh, yes I did.

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My CEO makes more than your CEO

Oh, what the hell. It’s NaBloPoMo – let’s dust this thing off and pretend that someone still reads it.

My mom sent an email a while back and asked for my comments. I had a response – oh, did I have a response. But, I had so much to say that I never responded. Didn’t have the time, at the time, to give my full feedback. Aren’t we all lucky that I decided to pipe up today and say something – the same day that NaBloPoMo starts. Woot, content!

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Whiskey is key

I ripped out the carpet in the stairwell a while ago following the great Cain Ate Raw Turkey & Messed the Carpet incident of 2010. (That, by the way, was all the Mister’s fault.) I considered refinishing the wood on the staircase but, as you will soon see, it’s July 18th and the Mister has yet to put away the Christmas decorations. The likelihood of getting the stairs refinished before old age? Nill to not fucking likely.

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One-third shock, two parts pity

I’m heading out of town at the end of the month for a few days.  And as much as I am looking forward to a some travel, you know what I’m not looking forward to? That look on people’s faces when you meet them for the first time and tell them you are from Detroit. You know the look – one-third shock, two parts pity.

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Mighty Life List

I’ve been reading Maggie Mason for years and have found myself particularly inspired by her Mighty Life List. For years I have wanted to create my own, but it hasn’t been easy. I’m so not a big picture thinker. I’m reactionary, malleable, adaptable, a go-with-the-flow kinda gal, if you will… all about the journey, not so much the destination, and all those clichés. It’s hard to envision the things I want to accomplish in life when I am so enthralled with uncovering those mysteries that present themselves to me daily.

Sure, there are always those things that, when I hear about them, I think, “Wow, that would be cool… ” But, with few exceptions, I forget about them almost as soon as I hear them.  I’ve become so fascinated with collecting a Mighty Life List that’s it’s hard to envision stopping long enough to actually plan one.

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Not obsessive, just self aware

I think I’ve always had a strong sense of my predominant traits. I’m emotional. I’m not particularly organized. I obsess… a lot.  But it wasn’t until recently that I went through an exercise at work that put new names on those traits – like Empathy, Adaptability and Restorative – that I was actually able to embrace them and come to think of them as strengths instead of deficits. It’s been nothing short of life-altering.

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