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		<title>Day twelve.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/02/06/day-twelve/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 03:32:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve officially hit a wall. I&#8217;m so exhausted I can&#8217;t stay awake&#8230; and when I wake up, I still feel exhausted. I think it is time to officially stop sulking and to move forward with a plan of action. I need to take better care of myself. I have three priorities for the rest of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1701&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day eleven.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/02/05/day-eleven/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 03:31:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some days the gravity of my marital situation is such that nothing much else bothers me. Everything else is just a blip on the screen. And then some days, like today, the little things pile on top and I just go into a day-long funk. Today a few friends showed their asshole side. Today the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1699&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day ten.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/02/05/day-ten/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 05:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know what it is about weddings that bring out the worst in everyone. It is hard enough to try and maintain a smile in the face of the bride-to-be when all I can think about is how my marriage is falling apart, on top of having to deal with the poor behavior of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1696&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day nine.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/02/04/day-nine/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 05:02:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://ursamajor.wordpress.com/?p=1694</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been doing T&#8217;ai Chi and Qigong for the past few days. I think it is helping to relax me. I feel more calm, though my face betrays me. My skin is sallow and I look tired. Hell, I feel tired. There just aren&#8217;t enough hours in the day to sleep anymore and do the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1694&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day eight.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/02/02/day-eight/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 03:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Bryan returned home from his counseling appointment today he asked if I had talked to his counselor. (I have not.) When I asked why he said it was because his counselor was saying to him, almost word-for-word, the things I had been saying to him for so long. Duh. When will he realize I&#8217;m [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1692&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day seven.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/02/01/day-seven/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 02:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://ursamajor.wordpress.com/?p=1690</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I will say that, for all the pain and confusion I am going through right now, there is always a silver lining. With my filters and defenses completely on sensory overload at home, I am insanely uncensored at work right now. I don&#8217;t have the capacity to obsess over the ”right” answers &#8211; I act [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1690&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day six.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/01/31/day-six/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 03:02:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://ursamajor.wordpress.com/?p=1688</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[”Its gonna be okay. Its gonna be okay,” I tell myself all day long. That lasts until about 8:00 each night until, like a toddler that skips their nap, my too raw defense mechanisms cave and I lose&#8230; my&#8230; shit. Tonight I drove around my neighborhood, in circles, crying. I thought being away from Bryan [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1688&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day five.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/01/30/day-five/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 04:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The word for the day is hives. As in I keep breaking out in hives. I think its more psychosomatic than anything. We can pretend that its all okay as much as we want, but your body always gives you away.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1686&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day four.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/01/29/day-four/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 04:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m waiting for the miracle that is going to turn it all around. Every so often, like tonight, it hits me that its not coming and I just get so sad. I try to explain that to him, but he just doesn&#8217;t get it. He&#8217;s not every going to get it.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1684&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Day three.</title>
		<link>http://ursulaproper.com/2012/01/29/day-three/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 05:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Calm day. He&#8217;s acting like it is all same old, same old. I guess I&#8217;m acting that way too. It is a much-needed respite pretending today that we are okay. Last night he came home at 3:30, after a night of watching a friend&#8217;s band. I was watching tv on the couch. ”Are you coming [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ursulaproper.com&amp;blog=640041&amp;post=1682&amp;subd=ursamajor&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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